I think what matters tremendously is how we fill ourselves up, the content that instigates our thoughts and endeavors, the way we spend our days, and the people we tie our time to, purposely or by apathetic association. Who you are today is who you will have been tomorrow. We are so much more the making of our history than we want to admit. We’re pushed to plan for a different life and thus judge and size ourselves up against anything but the reality of our own presence, our own beautifully flawed world, our own here and now. Because if we did that, if we lived with intention and integrity, we would courageously fill ourselves with what really mattered, which of course are the small things, the moments to slow down and let go, and the people you would choose to love and love better day after day after day.
So stop being assholes.